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她的溫柔

女與男的關係多長才能算久
問了幾個朋友差不多都搖頭
都說 看妳怎麼要求 再看將不將就
這話讓人聽了 心裡難受

女孩要是寂寞 不必誰引誘
雖說現在認識到分手 三年堪稱不朽
可是 當她說要分開 真的不必挽留
她說要分手 多數都沒有救

她的確溫柔
儘管有時候她的心 沒有你想得保守
她真溫柔 三十歲之前不停漂流 那是因為青春 愛情
她們都想要有

一旦胖起來就好像不會變瘦
慢慢地也能接受不會 永遠晶瑩剔透
孩子慢慢大了以後 清晰的只剩代溝
男人為什麼 從不理會前奏

啊！她的溫柔
到這個時候開始會 變得不輕易表露
她的溫柔 是一種火侯
不是哪個青春小妞隨便學得走
她的幸福 誰都不讓插手

她的確溫柔
儘管有時候她的心 沒有你想得保守
她再溫柔 三十歲之後不想漂流 那是因為青春 愛情
不看好就會溜走

啊！她的溫柔
到這個時候開始會 變得不輕易表露
她的溫柔 是一種火侯
不是哪個青春小妞隨便學得走
她的幸福 誰都不讓插手

Her Gentleness

How long does a relationship between a man and a woman have to be to be considered long?
I asked a few friends and they all shook their heads.
They all said, "It depends on what you expect from a relationship, and whether you're willing to compromise."
That made me feel sad.

If a girl is lonely, she doesn't need anyone to tempt her.
Even though it's said that relationships nowadays only last three years on average before they end.
But when she says she wants to break up, there's no point in trying to stop her.
When she says she wants to break up, there's usually no saving the relationship.

She is indeed gentle.
Even though sometimes her heart is not as conservative as you think.
She is really gentle. Before the age of thirty, she kept drifting. That's because of youth, love.
They all want to have it.

Once you get fat, it seems like you'll never get thin again.
Slowly, you can also accept that you will not always be crystal clear.
As children grow up, all that's left is a generation gap.
Why do men never pay attention to the prelude?

Ah! Her gentleness,
At this point, it will start to become less easily expressed.
Her gentleness is a kind of maturity,
Not something that any young girl can easily learn.
She won't let anyone interfere with her happiness.

She is indeed gentle.
Even though sometimes her heart is not as conservative as you think.
She may be gentle, but after the age of thirty, she doesn't want to drift anymore. That's because of youth, love.
If it's not promising, she'll let it go.

Ah! Her gentleness,
At this point, it will start to become less easily expressed.
Her gentleness is a kind of maturity,
Not something that any young girl can easily learn.
She won't let anyone interfere with her happiness.