Paroles et traduction 梅艷芳 - 相愛很難 (電影"男人四十"歌曲)

相愛很難 (電影"男人四十"歌曲)

最好 有生一日都愛下去
但誰人 能將戀愛當做終生興趣
生活 其實旨在找到個伴侶
面對現實 熱戀很快變長流細水
可惜我 不智或僥倖
對火花天生敏感
不過 兩隻手拉的太緊
愛到過了界那對愛人
同時亦最易變成一對敵人

也許相愛很難
就難在其實雙方各有各寄望 怎麼辦
要單戀都難
受太大的禮會內疚卻也無力歸還
也許不愛不難
但如未成佛升仙也會怕愛情前途黯淡
愛不愛都難
未快樂先有責任給予對方面露歡顏
得到浪漫 又要有空間
得到定局 卻怕去到終站
然後付出多得到少不介意豁達 又擔心
有人看不過眼

可惜我 不智或僥倖
對火花天生敏感
不過 兩隻手拉得太緊
愛到過了界那對愛人
同時亦最易變成一對敵人

也許相愛很難
就難在其實雙方各有各寄望 怎麼辦
要單戀都難
受太大的禮會內疚卻也無力歸還
也許不愛不難
但如未成佛升仙也會怕愛情前途黯淡
愛不愛都難
未快樂先有責任給予對方面露歡顏
得到浪漫 又要有空間
得到定局 卻怕去到終站
然後付出多得到少不介意豁達 又擔心
有人看不過眼

無論熱戀中失戀中都永遠記住第一戒
別要張開雙眼

Loving is Hard (Theme Song from the Movie "July Rhapsody")

Ideally, we'd love each other until the end of our days
But who can sustain love as a lifelong passion?
Life is truly about finding a partner
Facing reality, passionate love quickly turns into a gentle stream
Unfortunately, I'm either unwise or taking a gamble
Naturally sensitive to sparks
But when two hands hold on too tightly
Lovers who cross the line of love
Can easily become enemies

Perhaps loving is hard
The difficulty lies in having different expectations, what can we do?
Even unrequited love is hard
Receiving too much kindness brings guilt, yet we're powerless to return it
Perhaps not loving isn't hard
But even if we haven't reached enlightenment, we fear a bleak future for love
To love or not to love, both are hard
Before happiness comes the responsibility of showing a joyful face to the other
Having romance, yet needing space
Reaching a stable state, yet fearing the final destination
Then, giving more than receiving, not minding open-mindedness, yet worrying
That someone might disapprove

Unfortunately, I'm either unwise or taking a gamble
Naturally sensitive to sparks
But when two hands hold on too tightly
Lovers who cross the line of love
Can easily become enemies

Perhaps loving is hard
The difficulty lies in having different expectations, what can we do?
Even unrequited love is hard
Receiving too much kindness brings guilt, yet we're powerless to return it
Perhaps not loving isn't hard
But even if we haven't reached enlightenment, we fear a bleak future for love
To love or not to love, both are hard
Before happiness comes the responsibility of showing a joyful face to the other
Having romance, yet needing space
Reaching a stable state, yet fearing the final destination
Then, giving more than receiving, not minding open-mindedness, yet worrying
That someone might disapprove

Whether in passionate love or heartbreak, always remember the first rule
Don't open your eyes