Текст и перевод песни 陳柏宇 - 愛他怕他

愛他怕他

你對他只會傻笑 你有幾喜愛傻笑
尤其是你若要哭 卻沒眼淚 也委屈夠了
別當他比你重要 愛得開心最重要
情人就算大過天 你落了地 角色都變了
連氣質都缺少

愛他不必要怕他 就當爭氣也罷
沒有吵過架不等於恩愛不起變卦
越怕失去越縱他 就算爭拗也罷
難道真心相戀相處也沒一點火花

你對他只要明理 卻不等於要受氣
尤其是有道理都怕被責備 會扭曲了你
若要他真厚待你 別再假裝到完美
情人共處若要分秒在戒備 你怎麼似你
就快委屈到死

愛他不必要怕他 就當爭氣也罷
沒有吵過架不等於恩愛不起變卦
越怕失去越縱他 就算爭拗也罷
難道真心相戀相處也沒一點火花

恨我沒法做到 坐看著你為愛
如奴僕自尊不保
我知我不夠好 也總會想你好
仍然令我很懊惱 Oh
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愛他不必要怕他 就當爭氣也罷
沒法相信你想他一生也飾演惡霸
越怕失去越縱他 就算爭拗也罷
難道他只喜歡一個美麗端莊啞巴
難道真心相戀相處也沒一點火花

我最喜歡你像你 你也許早已忘記
仍然願你面對他也沒顧忌 快鼓起勇氣

Loving Him, Fearing Him

You only smile foolishly at him, how much do you like to appear foolish?
Especially when you want to cry, but have no tears, and you're sufficiently humiliated
Don't make him more important than you, it's most important to love happily
Even if your lover is precious, after you've settled down, your whole dynamic will change
Even your temperament will be lacking

There's no need to fear him when you love him, even if it's just for the sake of competing
Not having argued doesn't mean the sweetness won't change
The more you fear losing him, the more you'll indulge him, even if it's just a squabble
Could it be that true affection even lacks a bit of passion?

You only need to be reasonable with him, which doesn't mean you have to be bullied
Especially when you have reason, but are afraid of being reprimanded, it will change you
If you want him to truly cherish you, don't always pretend to be perfect
If you have to be on your guard every second with your lover, how can you be yourself?
You've almost been wronged to death

There's no need to fear him when you love him, even if it's just for the sake of competing
Not having argued doesn't mean the sweetness won't change
The more you fear losing him, the more you'll indulge him, even if it's just a squabble
Could it be that true affection even lacks a bit of passion?

I hate that I can't just sit and watch you be so devoted
Like a slave, with no self-respect
I know I'm not good enough, but I always want the best for you
It still makes me really upset, oh
Can you hear?

There's no need to fear him when you love him, even if it's just for the sake of competing
I can't believe you want to pretend to be a bully for the rest of your life
The more you fear losing him, the more you'll indulge him, even if it's just a squabble
Could it be that he only likes a beautiful, elegant mute?
Could it be that true affection even lacks a bit of passion?

I like you best when you're yourself, maybe you've long forgotten
I still hope you can face him without hesitation, quickly muster up the courage